Old & alone
Loneliness, life & death Since retiring to the country in 2021 the writer has come to realise one thing - being old and alone can be detrimental to physical and emotional well-being. As he approached 70, the writer's health went almost overnight from perfect to problematic. Lots of reasons were looked at, analysed, and possible solutions discovered. Yet, at its core, the problem was not simply physiological, as in "aging"; it was psychological as well, as in "being alone". That loneliness was not just separation from an intimate partner, but also from immediate family and friends. The impact of that separation was significant. The writer became very much aware of this reality about four years into his isolation, when connection with "home" became more fractured and had gradually lessened over time. Looking for medical solutions did not really work, and neither did healthy solutions available aplenty through social media such as YouTube, though t...